There are so MANY essential oils for sex and romance and we will cover them all. We may desire deeper intimacy with our partners, but it's not always that easy. Sometimes life gets in the way. There are four major barriers that can block us from having the most amazing sex life with our partner - emotional, hormonal, physical, and a plain lack of interest or desire. I can't wait to help you get the oils in your hands that can break these barriers wide open.
In my own marriage of over 20 years and 5 pregnancies we have dealt with each one of these areas at one point or another, and adding oils has been nothing short of amazing.
I suggest taking notes as you read through, keeping track of each oil that you need. You'll need a starter kit if you don't already have one. I recommend getting the basic kit and then adding on the oils from this article that you need. Already have an account? Then I suggest getting on Essential Rewards since you'll want to reorder these on a regular basis and might as well get FREE stuff. If you have an inactive account, simply call Young Living 1-800-371-3515 and ask to reactivate with your order. Give them the person that signed you up's sponsor number or if they are no longer active I would be happy to help. My number is 1702555.
If you are new to oils here are a few things you may want to look at before jumping in. Oh and we are talking about oils that may be ingested and used on some sensitive parts ;), so we can only recommend the safest and best oils which is the Young Living brand.
Sometimes it's emotional barriers that keep us from enjoying intimate time together. Whether they are caused by past trauma from childhood, or some tension within the relationship...these things can cause a major barrier.
It has been said that when there is a conflict between reason and feeling, human beings will always side with feeling. According to Gary Young, “99% of life’s decisions are made from feelings.” Therefore, if you want your life to lead to deeper intimacy you need to be aware of and in control of your present feelings and to learn how to release the repressed emotions of the past.
Most of our feelings from day to day are not responses to current happenings. They originate from the programming in cellular memory that was imprinted by the emotional experiences of our past that we were unable to understand, process, and resolve at the time.
These forgotten traumatic experiences function as live programming in our bodies, affecting every aspect of our lives and particularly in the area of intimacy. When our thoughts are limited by fears, lack of self-worth, and not feeling good enough, we make decisions that limit our ability to be intimate.
Essential oils molecules can pass directly to the emotional brain and can bring us into contact with the issues we have long forgotten and enable us to deal with them and resolve them once and for all. When we clear our emotional baggage, we open ourselves to experiencing more intimacy.
The Feelings Kit, contains the following 7 oils. The Feelings Kit Protocol is shown below. Certain areas of our body are known to hold certain emotions like anger in the liver and gallbladder. These points on the body are used with a correlating oil.
Step 1: Apply Valor on the bottoms of your feet to balance your feelings.
Step 2: Apply Harmony on the energy points of the body to release unpleasant energies.
Step 3: Apply Forgiveness clockwise on the navel to let go of negative emotion.
Step 4: Apply Present Time to the wrists and behind your ears.
Step 5: Apply Release over the front and back liver in the circular motion.
Step 6: Apply Inner Child under your nose.
Step 7: Apply Valor once again to complete the Feelings Kit experience.
You may repeat the Feelings Kit application as often as you wish.
*If you are interested in the Feelings Kit and do not have a wholesale account yet, the best deal is to get a basic kit, which gives you a wholesale account and then add the Feelings Kit. You will save more money this way. You can also buy these oils individually.
There are three major endocrine hormones women struggle to balance - estrogen, progesterone, and testosterone. All three are needed for a healthy reproductive system and sex drive. Products containing hormone disrupters can wreak havoc on our hormones. They can increase production of certain hormones; decrease production of others; imitate hormones; turnone hormone into another; interfer with hormone signaling; tell cells to die prematurely; compete with essential nutrients; bind to essential hormones; accumulate in organs that produce hormones.
Hormone disrupters are found in our food (read top 10 here), in our personal care items (read list of top 12 here), and of course birth control can throw things out of balance. I recommend getting the Think Dirty app and scanning or looking up the items you use on a regular basis to see if they contain hormone disrupters and what grade they are given. We have switched out pretty much all of our personal care products from soaps, shampoos, skincare, makeup, laundry detergent with Young Living products. I have 5 kids that I want to go on to give me grandbabies and I will do everything I can to protect their reproductive systems.
Clary Sage is an oil that has been used for centuries for hormonal issues. Women naturally feels more "in the mood" when their estrogen levels are higher. This is because our estrogen levels are highest when we are ovulating. We are designed to feel more in the mood when we are fertile, which makes sense. As we age, our estrogen levels decrease so having an oil that can help support healthier NATURAL estrogen levels is something that’ll really be beneficial!
-Use topically, aromatically, or internally
-An oil for the ladies because of its estrogen-like effects.
-Typically used during your menstrual cycle for PMS/ menstrual discomforts, to support balanced hormones, but is nice in the bedroom as well.
-As we age, our estrogen levels drop. One sign of low estrogen is "dryness" in your lady parts.
-Using a drop of Clary Sage daily can increase your natural levels of estrogen that will help you feel more frisky, more lubricated, and more willing. You can apply on your forearms, wrists, reflexology/vita flex points for the reproductive system (feet, ankles), or on the back of the neck.
-Apply diluted Clary Sage to the inner thigh before intimacy to help increase natural lubrication. (Also known to heat up when friction is applied if rubbed on the female parts.)
-Generally Regarded As Safe/GRAS by the FDA for internal consumption. Start with 1-2 drops in a capsule filled with carrier oil or add it to your Ningxia Red. ***Note, this MAY make you more fertile.
-Diffuse Clary Sage. It's a middle note-which means it's not super floral or super earthy. It mixes well with bright top notes like Orange, or with floral blends like Ylang Ylang or Joy.
-NOT to be used during pregnancy as it can kick start labor. You CAN use it if you’ve been cleared by your medical care provider to help get labor started if you’re past term.
I think Clary Sage should be something all women should use to help balance us out.
Progessence Plus serum, also referred to as PP or P+
Progessence Plus Serum is a highly micronized bio-identical (human) progesterone in a natural Vitamin E base with a set of special essential oils like frankincense, copaiba, and sandalwood. The base of essential oils enhance the absorption through the skin and has wonderfully calming benefit as well.
Progessence Plus Serum is not an essential oil, but a natural progesterone supplement with essential oils and wild yam extract. It was developed by Dr Dan Purser, who specializes in women's hormone issues. When testing women who came to see him, almost all of them had low progesterone or ZERO progesterone. This is a problem, because progesterone is a hormone that our body needs in adequate amounts for our libido and overall wellness. Many women's issues like endometriosis, menstrual migraines, and PMS are attributed to low levels of natural progesterone. Progesterone decreases over time with age and tends to drop after childbirth for many women, and when it drops too low, our sex drive disappears. Low progesterone and/or estrogen also contribute to hot flashes and night sweats.
If you’re on birth control, are pregnant or breastfeeding, on hormone replacement, have had breast cancer, be sure to make sure this is the right product for you.
You’ll find Progessence Plus Serum in the Personal Care section, not the Essential Oil section of the Young Living website.
-Apply topically over the arteries of your neck and on your forearms.
-Progessence Plus Serum is a natural progesterone supplement with essential oils of Sacred Frankincense, Copaiba, Bergamot, Peppermint, Cedarwood, Rosewood, Clove and progesterone from wild yam extract & Vit E.
-It can be a kick-starter for the libido because it can help to support balanced hormones and increases progesterone.
-Can have a calming effect.
-Can balances mood swings.
-Can support healthy adrenal functions.
-May enhance female vitality and sexual desire.
-Can help support regular cycles and can increase fertility.
Lady Sclareol Essential Oil is a hormone balance promoting oil blend. Well over ten years ago, a childless woman used this oil with a few others, and much to the joy of she and her husband, they were able to have two boys without undergoing any InVitro or chemical intervention. (Results will vary)
Lady Sclareol is a blend of hormone balancing oils that affect natural estrogen levels in the body.
Let's take a moment to first talk about the difference between natural hormones, plant hormones and synthetic hormones. Natural hormones are in our body and are necessary for the reproductive system. Phytoestrogens (plant hormones) like those found in Clary Sage are similar to mammal estrogens and are bioavailable in the body. Synthetic progesterone and synthetic estrogen are NOT completely compatible with the body. The synthetic nature of these products are that they have side effects...Like a -disease-we-shall-not-name type of side effects.
When the body has high level of natural hormones, from human or plant derived hormones, the risks of said diseases DECREASED. When the body has low levels of natural hormones, and is supplemented with synthetic hormones, the risks of these diseases INCREASED. Moral of the study? Human hormones. GOOD. Plant hormones. OKAY. Synthetic hormones? NOT GOOD.
-Diffuse or apply topically.
-Lady Sclareol is a blend of Coriander, Ylang Ylang, Bergamot, Jasmine, Vetiver, Orange, Clary Sage, Royal Hawaiian Sandalwood, Spanish Sage, Idaho Blue Spruce, Spearmint, Hinoki & Geranium.
-It inspires romance with its alluring, seductive scent.
-Natural aphrodisiac for both men and women.
-Supports natural estrogen production and can increase feelings of femininity.
-May help unblock physical and emotional issues which can lead to increased closeness and intimacy.
-Apply to base and front of neck as well as forearms and reproductive reflexology/vita flex points.
-Can help with occasional dryness in your lady parts.
-Its gentle warmth helps to stimulate libido when applied/massaged “directly”. However, please have a carrier oil near by just in case you need to dilute.
-Add to carrier oil for a sensual massage blend.
SclarEssence is another hormone supporting oil that LOVES to support the female reproductive system. All the oils in SclarEssence Vitality can be used for internal use. It in a blend of oils that can have estradiol-increasing benefits. Supporting healthy estradiol levels is one factor in a healthy reproductive system so some women take it daily as a dietary supplement. Beyond the reproductive system, estradiol also plays an important part in bone health, energy levels, metabolism, libido, and emotional well being.
-Diffuse, apply topically or use internally.
-SclarEssence is a blend of Clary Sage, Peppermint, Spanish Sage & Fennel.
-Can support normal glandular functions.
-Can support hormone balance and can decrease mood swings.
-Can help to reduce occasional bloating.
-May increase libido in women.
-Men have reported to find the smell arousing.
-Can be used as a dietary supplement 1-2 drops in a capsule once a day.
-Apply topically to back of neck, wrists, reflexology/vita flex point for the reproductive system on outside of ankles and/or on the lower abdomen.
Endoflex is a blend of spearmint, sage, geranium, myrtle, nutmeg and German chamomile in a base of sesame oil. These oils naturally support balanced hormones and that support a healthy endocrine system. The endocrine system is responsible for telling your body what hormones to produce and when to produce them. It regulates metabolism, growth, development, tissue function, sexual function, reproduction, thyroid function, sleep and mood. Endoflex can support the pineal and pituitary glands and the adrenal glands.
-CAUTION: If you have a sesame seed allergy, avoid this oil since it contains sesame oil.
-Apply topically on the neck over the thyroid and on the forearms.
-Use Endoflex Vitality as a daily supplement to support a healthy endocrine system.
Dragon Time is a hormone balancing oil that was developed for the time of the month when most women have mood changes as well as other changes due to ovulation. It is a blend of fennel, clary, marjoram, lavender, yarrow and jasmine. It contains the naturally occurring constituents of linalool, sclareol, linalyl acetate, germacrene D and beta-phellandrene...big words, but use the internet to find out what these constituents are and I’m sure you’ll be impressed!
Now how does an oil blend specifically made for the time before and during your menstrual cycle fit into a Love and Romance workshop? Well, if our moods during our cycles are way off track and we’re feeling pretty crummy from occasional cramping and sleep disturbances, the rest of our month isn’t necessarily going to bode that well because our partners may not feel that connected with us after we’ve been “dragon-like” with them, right?
This blend works primarily by raising estradiol levels in the body which also drop during menstruation. Good for you and good for your relationship.
-Apply this diluted oil over your lower abdomen several times a day as needed during your monthly cycle.
-Mix a few drops into Epsom salts and soak in a nice warm bath.
-Dragon Time is gentle enough that even teenagers can use it! Having happier, more emotionally balanced teenagers can be really helpful for parents and happy parents mean happy time in the bedroom.
The men in your family will thank you!
This blend of Yarrow, Sage, Fennel, Lavender, Myrtle and Peppermint was originally formulated to balance male energy and support healthy prostate function. But it’s actually helpful for women too because it can be helpful with normalizing hormones during PMS and menopause.Both men AND women can have low levels of testosterone, so it makes sense that Mister would be beneficial for both sexes.Mister contains an oil called Blue Yarrow that can support prostate health and can help the prostate to function properly. It can also help keep male hormones balanced.
Mister can help the prostate function optimally which is a big part of a man’s libido and performance.Check out how awesome the ingredients of Mister are:Yarrow - a natural prostate decongestant and hormone balancer
Sage - can strengthen vital centers
Myrtle - can help normalize hormonal imbalances of the thyroid and sex glands
Fennel - has a natural hormone-like activity
Lavender - is relaxing and grounding
Peppermint - can strengthen the liver and glandular function.
All good things to get the man back on track!One last little note on Mister - this blend contains sesame seed oil so if you have a sesame seed allergy please pass on this one.
-Diffuse or use topically
-A guy’s oil that helps to increase libido.
-Not just for guys though! It can help women who have lower testosterone levels. It can be especially helpful for PMS and menopausal issues.
-Apply diluted Mister to his ankles and the front and back pubic bones. Apply daily for optimal prostate performance.
-The aroma of Mister is really soothing. Use it in a bath or worn as a cologne.
-This blend can help support the prostate and promote greater male hormonal balance.
-The oils in Mister are all great ones to help keep his libido high. Yarrow - a prostate decongestant and hormone balancer, Sage – strengthens vital centers, Fennel - has hormone-like activity, Lavender - relaxing, uplifting and grounding, Myrtle - helps normalize hormones of the thyroid and sex glands, and Peppermint - strengthens the liver and glandular function.
-Diffuse, directly inhale or add 2-4 drops to bath water.
-Apply to ankle Vita Flex points, lower pelvis, or directly to area – You may place a hot compress with a few drops of Mister directly on his member to help get things jump started.
-Do NOT use if you have a sesame allergy. It contains sesame oil.
Top reasons I think Mister is a must-have? 1) Prostate health is so important for the guys in our life. 2) f you're a menopausal woman, this is an oil for your to use to support your transition!
FemiGen capsules combines whole food herbs Wild Yam, Dong Quai, Black Cohosh, Damiana Leaf, Licorice Root Extract, Muira Palma root, Ginseng and Epimedium, (Black cohosh plants are natural sources of phytoestrogens), along with amino acids and select essential oils: Fennel, Clary Sage, Sage & Ylang Ylang.
-It supports the female reproductive system and is formulated with herbs and amino acids that are designed to balance and support the hormonal system.
-Black Cohosh benefits may include supporting healthy cortisol levels and supporting a healthy endocrine system in women. It is used in Europe as a natural alternative to promote feelings of balance.
-Wild yam benefits include supporting women's hormonal balancing needs.
-Dong Quai is often referred to as "The Female Ginseng" for its harmonizing qualities.
Estro is an herbal tincture formulated to support the female glandular system and to foster a normal, healthy attitude during PMS. It contains plant-derived phytoestrogens, including black and blue cohosh, along with clary sage, fennel and lavender essential oils, and royal jelly.
-Black and blue cohosh benefits include decreasing cortisol levels, supporting a healthy endocrine system and is used in Europe as a natural alternative to promote balance.
-Black Cohosh benefits include supporting healthy cortisol levels and supporting a healthy endocrine system.Blue cohosh traditionally has been used to uplift attitude during PMS.
Some of us may experience physical barriers in the form of either pain or inability to perform. These things can easily make us shy away from intimate time together.
This story from Jennifer Smith, of unveiledwife.com, about her pain really hits home for the need to remove all toxins from our personal care products.
The biggest breakthrough my husband and I experienced happened in November of 2010. We firmly believe that God heard our cries to experience a fulfilling marriage and He responded in a miraculous way. He brought my husband’s attention to a facial cleanser product that I had been applying daily for nearly 8 years. After researching the ingredients in my face wash, we discovered that there were a handful of harmful chemicals in the product, including parabens. I immediately stopped using anything and everything that contained parabens and within 3 days I noticed a difference. Within a week, my husband and I experienced an easier time during intercourse and within a month we were able to enjoy sex, pain free!
Again we have replaced almost all harmful products with safe Young Living products from skincare, to makeup, soaps, and more.
Below are some great products that can help with physical barriers.
Sensation Massage Oil
Many lubes on the market can cause itching and irritation because they are made with harsh chemicals. I highly recommend replacing it with Sensation Massage Oil. It is naturally based with coconut oil and the essential oils in this will most definitely get things going. You can also make your own with coconut oil and your own blend of essential oils.
IDAHO BLUE SPRUCE
This oil is one of my favorite oils for HIM. And by that, I mean an oil that your man can use to help make sex more awesome for YOU. Because the reality is... when intimacy is better for you, it’s more likely to happen more often for HIM. 😉
Idaho Blue Spruce can help him stay firmer longer so you can enjoy yourself longer as well. It's a great alternative to that little blue pill. This oil is like a military call to to STAND at ATTENTION! It can be used with coconut oil as a lubricant and has a nice cooling effect for you too.
-Supports circulation and helps with firmness in keeping him “Spruced” up.
-It can be used with sensation massage oil as a lubricant. It can feel warming and slightly tingly.
-Can assist in making intimate time last longer. Dilute and apply on HIS inner thighs and to the lower shaft area.
-It has been reported in some cases to increase length of of your partner’s member with regular ingestion.
-The effects wear off naturally soon after intercourse.
- For occasional erectile issues: You can use Idaho Blue Spruce. Apply a few drops (diluted) topically beforehand, or even better take 2-3 drops in a capsule full of Olive Oil daily. Do not exceed 3 drops the first week that you take it daily. This is not one you want to over do. There have been complaints from men that 5 drops made them feel very uncomfortable.
I bet we see a spike (pun intended) in sales of Idaho Blue Spruce right around now, right? 😉
Golden+Rod...the name says it all, but here is a little more detail...
The essential oil from the flowering top of the plant can improve circulation and aid the urinary tract. According to the University of Montreal in Canada, it also was found to help with not so firm “rods”. 😉
When it comes back use it as a topical oil near the inner thighs and lower shaft. You can also take 3 drops in a capsule. A little goes a long way.
-Use topically, aromatically or internally.
-Known to support the circulatory system and as well as the urinary tract and bladder.
-Also can help regulate normal blood pressure.
-May help with firmness of the male member; it may help for occasional impotence and occasional lack of erectile firmness.
-Apply a few diluted drops topically on the inner thighs and lower shaft.
-Internally, he may take 2-3 drops in a capsule daily, top off with a carrier oil. Idaho Blue Spruce can be added/substituted if Goldenrod doesn’t help as everyone’s body is different and may not react the same to the oils.
Most people wouldn’t think of nutmeg as something that could help with love and romance. It’s something that most people equate with baking, right? Well, nutmeg has been historically known to be an aphrodisiac. Nutmeg also has a stimulating effect which can be helpful in stimulating the right body parts...if you know what I mean. Wink wink.
-Diffuse, take internally or apply topically.
-Nutmeg can stimulate energy that is both physical and sexual and some report it giving them a “caffeine kick” after ingesting or diffusing.
-Nutmeg is a natural aphrodisiac because emotionally, it can stimulate energy and physically, because it can increases circulation and acts as a vasodilator. Vaso= blood vessels and dilator= makes bigger. Put the two together and well, I’ll just let you figure out the rest!
-CAUTION: Nutmeg is so stimulating that it can have negative effects when used in large doses like heart racing or palpitations. Use it sparingly.
- DILUTE: It is a bit more harsh than some of the other Love and Romance oils so make sure to dilute this one.
Time to take your nutmeg out of the kitchen and bring it into your bedroom...or enjoy in in a new way in the kitchen! 😉
Let's face it, many of us don't always have the desire.
You and I both know that for women, sex starts before we even get into the bedroom. Doing things throughout the day to help get you in the mindset can be just what you need to turn up the heat later.
Let’s chat about some ideas to get you in the mood.
PENCIL IT IN
Ok, so I know that sounds like the polar opposite of exciting and sexy, but when your schedule is crazy busy, sometimes you have to pencil in those important meetings between the sheets.
SEND A FLIRTY TEXT
I’m not saying send anything you wouldn't want the world to see ( I mean once things are out there, they are out there lol). Things can be accidentally shared or sent to the wrong person so be careful.
A simple “Can’t wait to spend an evening alone” might be just enough to get the wheels turning on the other end. Send a favorite picture of your wedding day, or a favorite memory you shared together.
TAKE A BATH
After a long day with the kids, my husband will often dismiss me to take a bath and relax while he puts the kids down. It gives me the chance to unwind and get out of mommy mode. Use Sensation bath and body gel to get things moving. Place some oils like Joy in the bath water with epsom salt. Turn on the diffuser with some orange oil.
USE YOUR OILS!
The oils below will take any thought that you weren't in the mood out of your head. I am living proof...thank you Joy! Our time often starts with my husband saying "go put on your oils"...ha!
Sensation is a blend that is a mix of Ylang Ylang, Rosewood and Jasmine. It smells like Joy, but a little bit softer because it lacks the Geranium that gives Joy it's strong floral scent. Sensation is one of those oils that often gets overlooked but I would highly recommend it. In fact, it’s sensational! LOL
Any of you ever get overwhelmed with life and then when the opportunity to get intimate comes up, you’re not ready to be touched? Ummm...yeah...this is where Sensation comes in handy. It can really help to get rid of your blockages about being intimate.
-Diffusing Sensation can be uplifting, refreshing, profoundly romantic and arousing
-It can help relieve stress and release blocks that may keep you from wanting to be intimate and loved. A great one to help start your engine and to help you get in the mood.
-Apply a couple of drops of Sensation (neat or mixed with carrier oil) to the wrists, inner thighs, behind ears and back of neck. You might notice some tingling, feelings of anticipation of looking forward to what’s next.
-Sensation may help you let loose and be able to experience new heights of self-expression and sexual awareness...more than once, if you know what I mean! 😉
-Also try the Sensation Massage oil, which comes in a handy bottle with a pump that you can just have next to your bed.
-Mix it with orange or cypress to further enhance it’s magical properties. You can even dilute it with a drop of coconut oil and take turns massaging it on your happy places . You can thank us later.
Oh, Joy, how do I love thee? Let us count the ways...you help my emotions stay balanced, you help me feel happier, you smell like a bouquet of fragrant flowers….I could go on and on!
Joy is a blend of Bergamot, Ylang Ylang, Géranium, Lemon, Coriander, Tangerine, Jasmine, Roman Chamomile, Palmarosa, and Rose essential oils that harmonize for a sweet, joyful aroma. Its scent is sometimes a bit overwhelming for some. Blend it with Orange or something else and apply a drop over your heart every morning to help keep your mood level throughout the day.
-Wear Joy as a perfume to exude an alluring and irresistible fragrance that inspires romance and togetherness.
-This beautiful blend produces a magnetic energy that provides a sense of joy to the heart, mind and soul. This oil inspires romance and can help overcome deep seated grief and depression.
-Use it with a carrier oil for a full body massage.
-Apply it on the lower back, abdomen and on the heart and brain reflexology or vita flex points to help get you in the mood.
-Apply it over the heart, thymus, temples and wrists to assist in a sense of wellbeing.
-This blend of essential oil has Rose oil as an ingredient. Rose oil has the highest frequency of all the essential oils. It can help elevate the mind and can create a magnetic energy that attracts pure love and brings joy to the heart. Jasmine is also an ingredient and can help to revitalize spirits and bring feelings of love, support and joy.
-Known to help balance occasional menopausal mood swings.
-Dilute with carrier oil and rub it on your inner thighs, up the creases of where your legs meet your torso, and on your lower abdomen. Joy has the perfect blend of oils like Ylang Ylang and Rose that can really get the motor running and get the blood pumping.
This oil is amazing. It’s power as an aphrodisiac has been well-documented throughout the ages.
Ylang Ylang is one of the ingredients in both Joy and Sensation oil blends. It can increase libido in women AND men.
Ylang Ylang is a flower that grows in Ecuador. The petals are hand-picked early in the morning to maximize oil yield. The oil can increase feeling of happiness, adoration, and can calm the mind. It can even help to keep your blood pressure normal because it is so calming.
-Ylang Ylang essential oil has a rich, pleasing, and romantic floral scent. Diffuse this calming, relaxing and soothing fragrance or massage into the scalp to increase the appearance of healthy, shiny hair.
-It is known as a natural aphrodisiac. In Indonesia, Ylang Ylang petals are strewn across the marriage bed.
-This fragrant oil can help balance male/female energies, enhance spiritual attunement, combat anger, combat low self esteem, increase focus of thoughts, filter out negative energy and restore confidence and peace.
-Can help reduce PMS symptoms.
-Dilute 1:1 with a carrier oil and apply on chakras and/or reflexology or vita flex points.
-Diffuse in the bedroom to set the mood.
-Rub a few diluted drops at your pubic area near the panty lines. Also generously apply a few diluted drops from the inner thighs to the panty line area.
-Mix with Orange and make a roller to apply on inner thighs for added benefits.
-Use sparingly if you have low blood pressure.
It’s a pretty good oil to have around for non-bedroom reasons, don’t you think?
Orange is an oil that can help you feel happier and it is AWESOME for frigidity. It can help you relax if you have low libido due to a bit of anxiety. It is also great mixed with a floral like Ylang Ylang or an equalizer like Cypress or Clary Sage.
-Diffuse some orange if you’re feeling anxious and need to get to your happy place.
-Orange also works great when used in tandem with Cypress or Ylang Ylang as a diluted blend rubs on inner thighs and stomach. Try 2 drops of Cypress and 4 drops of Orange in a carrier oil rubbed on inner thighs.
-A drop of Orange in your water not only gives you the health benefits that come with Orange oil, but the smell will travel up to your olfactory system into your brain to help your mood.
Orange is such a reasonably priced oil. It's worth having on hand at all times. Now, "orange" you glad you know how it can help you in the bedroom? ha ha
This oil smells like you’re in a forest of cypress trees. It’s nice to diffuse with a drop of Orange or Joy.
Cypress can help to stimulate blood flow in the body. It's a natural diuretic and can help to remove water and salt that can lead to fluid retention. It can also help to strengthen veins and improves circulation. All of this leads to smoother looking skin and smaller looking veins. This is why Cypress is one of the main ingredients of Cel-lite massage oil. It can help to reduce the appearance of cellulite and dark veins by strengthening the tissue around fat cells and improving blood flow so veins don't pool and raise to the surface.
Back to that fun fact that Cypress can help to stimulate blood flow. In order for your man to stand at attention, there needs to be really good blood flow. And in order for you to have a wOw experience, you need blood flow in your lady parts too. That’s what makes Cypress such a great oil for both men AND women. 😉
-Improved circulation for you means you are more sensitive to touch!
-Cypress also helps promote feelings of confidence and emotional security.
-Can support a feeling of grounding and feeling centered
-Can be used diluted on the inner thighs--yours and your partner’s. Mix it with your favorites--maybe Joy or Orange.
-Used in a lubricant to promote increased pleasure and circulation.
Shutran is formulated to help turn on the lady. It's a like bottle of sweet smelling pheromones wafting into the hidden parts of your brain stimulating your naughtiest imagination. Once you realize what Shutran does...... oh THEN it becomes worth every penny.
AND Shutran is good for men and women! A lot of women use it as a perfume too.
Shutran is loved so much that Young Living has released a Shutran-infused bar soap, a shaving cream, an aftershave lotion and a beard oil infused with it. Dan has the beard oil and I love it!
-Diffuse or use topically.
-Mister is a blend of Idaho Blue Spruce, Ocotea, Ylang Ylang, Hinoki, Coriander, Davana Flower, Lavender, Cedarwood, Lemon, & Northern Lights Black Spruce.
-It’s an empowering essential oil blend specially formulated for men to boost feelings of masculinity and confidence.
-It is perfect for use as a cologne that appeals to both men and women.
-Specially formulated to attract romantic attention and be a turn on.
-Make a roller with Shutran, Mister and Idaho Blue Spruce to apply to his thighs, neck and wrists.
-Apply on man on the forearms, a drop to the shaft or inner thighs.
-Known to support natural testosterone production.
-A diluted drop can be applied to the "hanging" parts...if you know what I mean to enhance performance.
-It can also be used topically on the woman on the forearms, or on the inner thighs. Women should use it right beforehand as opposed to daily.
-It also can be diffused to build the mood - it smells INCREDIBLE.